Where do you stand on dignity and humiliation studies? The Nazis took delight it seems in the ongoing humiliation of Jewish peoples throughout Europe. The slave trade around the world for generations, delighted in the humiliation of those captured.
How does humiliation affect the human psyche or condition? |
The psyche of the victim or the perpetrator?
Victim - Feels ashamed, embarrassed, inferior, lowers self confidence, raises self doubt, becomes submissive etc ....
I think humiliation and torture affects victims psyche in different ways. Torture or inflicted suffering can bring forth feelings of hatred, resentment, rage, and of course sadness, despair, etc... Torture does not bring forth feelings of shamefulness like Humiliation does. People are not ashamed because they were tortured. However, humiliation puts people on public display. It degrades people to the level of cattle. They are made to feel sub-human which is why I think, it lowers their self confidence more than torture does. A rather effective tactic of slave owners in America was to humiliate slaves as well as torture them. Calling blacks "Boy" - "*******" - "Slave" caused blacks to feel like they were inferior. Putting them on display at public venues for sell must have been humiliating to the first slaves. But after awhile blacks felt like they were cattle because they were humiliated and degraded to believe such. I just thought of a saying...
"Beat a man down and he will hate you forever. Make him feel like he`s less than a man and he will obey you forever" |
I am in college and I have own a male who will remain as my house slave for 1 week. What should I make him do? I am in college and I have own a male who will remain as my house slave for 1 week. What should I make him do so he feels maximum humiliation. No sex off course but just to make him feel how low he is as always says in college that slavery should be legal so to teach him a lesson I need some suggestions. |
| get him licking girl |
What are some good humiliation punishments for a female slave? My Master wants to punish me. He wants some very creative humiliating and or painful odd punishments to do indoors.. It doesn't matter what they are he says.Master wants me to tell you that i have been bad and deserve what ever he chooses. i am a bad worthless slave and i will endure every punishment he chooses for the next 3 days. I will be naked all three days and will show my body to whoever asks to see on web cam surfbabe9175@yahoo.com. I must now go and sit in my cage untill you post ideas Master says. I will stay in cage for months if Master says. I am a dirty worthless ***** I am a dirty worthless ***** I am a dirty worthless ***** I am a dirty worthless ***** I am a dirty worthless ***** I am a dirty worthless ***** and I should be a human urinal and drink everyones piss Master says. |
| make them drink their pee |
Why does degradation and humiliation get submissive men off? Ok, so I'm a fairly new dominatrix and I was just wondering, why do some guys get off to being treated like ****? I've had this slave for a while, and it just doesn't make sense how he would like getting spit on, beat up, called a sissy wimp ****** and is constantly beating himself up... I could understand why others have certain fetishes but some men like being treated like a sack of garbage, what's up with that? I'm very sad about it :( |
Why your submissive craves humiliation is anyone's guess and short of several hours sitting on a couch with a qualified head psychiatrist we won't know his real reason.
By in general terms why anyone would crave such things can be stemmed from guyhood where they might have had an abusive parent, teacher, authority figure that they loved or relied on. They might have learned to associate those reliant feelings with someone who is verbally, mentally or physically abusive to them.
Or they may have had a perfect guyhood where they were over coddled and thus life is boring to them unless they receive this treatment. It could be that the abusiveness is so strange and different from their regular routine that they are drawn to it.
But as a new dominatrix I think you should make him tell you why. Beat it out of him. Or even worse, from his perspective, deny him the humliation until he tells you why. But once you have that information you can take advantage of how best to use it to fulfill his fantasy. Just be prepared for the answer that he doesn't know why. Personally I've got some very strong fetishes that I've been unable to trace the roots to for years despite exhaustive research. Sometimes, we just like what we like.
Out of curiousity, I'm wondering what is it about being a dominatrix that gets you off? |
What words are used in humiliation? When a dominatrix is humiliating her slave what words are the most degrading? |
Hi Mistress Malice, any word that has the intent of degrading a person's attributes, showing complete disregard for the person's abilities. Just to point out a few humiliating words;
stupid, lowlife, insignificant, incompetent, useless, idiot, worm, party pooper,disgraced, etc. |
Is there a happy medium in master/slave relationships? I have been interested in the lifestyle since I was a teenager. I would say I am the submissive. I would like to experiment in this lifestyle but at the same time, I'm not interested in being lead around by a collar, I am not into humiliation. Yet, when I search for information on this subject, that's all I can find. Can anyone help me please? |
Yes, there is happy medium.....
Each relationship must evolve to the balancing point. Simply enjoying the submissive role does not mean you have to lose your sense of self worth.
There are many submissives that are not collard or humiliated. They simply serve in a more supportive role to their dominate partner. Enjoying the benefits , and pleasures of having a dominant partner.
Do you have a Dom partner? What type of submissive are they seeking?
You need to find a Dom that, satisfies your desire to be dominated.
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Should i let her continue to feminize me and turn me into a sissy slave? We are both into public humiliation (of me), so this seems like a natural extention. Feminizing me started as a way to humiliate me, and we both love it. Now she wants to keep me feminized full time and have me get a very exotic platinum hairstyle and keep me with a collar locked on. |
| Obviously several of those that answered dont understand the lifestyle. It sounds like you are having some reservations about going 24/7 with this. It is your duty as the sub to express your concerns openly. Assuming she is a caring Domme, she will listen and take those feelings into account. What are your specific concerns with being feminized full time? Societal responses? Employment? Family? These are all things that need to be considered as well. Speak openly about your concerns. |
Do women find it "sexy" to own a male slave? I was reading an article about women owning men... As ACTUAL slaves, only they add in lots of abuse, beatings, and humiliation, etc..
I KNOW ABOUT BDSM, PLEASE DON'T JUST THROW THAT OUT THERE, LOL... Is there any women here who are interested in owning a male slave? |
| I wouldn't think of having a man as a slave. Does anyone want to volunteer. I would only need you one day a wk. and all you would have to do is run the sweeper and dust all the furniture, IN THE NUDE. The only requirement is that I get to watch. Any volunteers? |
If you were a slave, which P&S regular would you want to buy you? I"m talking about a well trained sex slave who takes care of Master's house, and serves Master's every need. Your Master is selling you because it is the ultimate form of Humiliation.
BTW, I'd go with George tfgph as I'm sure most people would. |
who would buy me? anyone who likes a 34A cup, and a firm body.
i'd GLADLY be George's slave/soulmate.
ooh, ooh, ooh!!! or creamy's! lol |